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Step 6 of 7 Practical Steps to Achieve Your Vision of Success: Enjoy Your Success!
At the “Taking Your Dreams from Design to Destiny” Conference on Jan. 15, 2011 participants were given an opportunity to go through the 7 steps below to create a draft of their Success Plan to take it to the next level in 2011! We started on 1.12.11 with step 1 (see below post dated 1.12.11). Over the next several weeks I am going to continue to share the SEVEN Practical Steps to achieving your goals and ultimately your Vision of Success. This week we are on Step 5. Updates will occur on Wednesdays in celebration of Women Owned Business Wednesdays. SEVEN Practical Steps to Achieving Your Goals
Step 1-Find and Clarify your Vision of Success
Step 2-Define Your Goals Clearly
Step 3-See/Visualize Yourself Achieving Your Goals/Vision of Success
Step 4-Make a Clear Plan With a Timeline
Step 5-Chart your Progress
Step 6-Enjoy Your Success!
Step 7-Give Back.
This Week’s Step: #-6- Enjoy Your Success!
Step 6-Enjoy Your Success!
Motivational speaker Zig Ziglar said, “You do not pay the price of success, you enjoy the price of success.”
Once you have achieved your goal or your Vision of Success it is very important that you acknowledge this. Don’t just rush off to your next goal as if you take this for granted. You should reward yourself, give yourself credit and allow yourself to feel how good you feel. This enjoyment will encourage you to repeat your success in other areas. Gratitude is also a very important thing here. You must express gratitude for reaching your goals and share this success with others. The amount of gratitude you express is directly proportional to the amount of success you will experience.
Try these Success Coaching Exercises…
Reward Yourself
Keep a list of things that are rewarding to you handy. This could be anything from a day off to a massage to a week long vacation. Whatever you decide be sure to follow through. Also have small rewards handy for when you accomplish small goals or achieve milestones along the journey. For example because I wrote a section of my book today on women living their visions I am now taking my dog Rex to the river for a nice peaceful nature walk. I will allow myself to really just be there and experience it as a reward for all the stuff I accomplished today.
Gratitude Letter
Because the written word can be so powerful consider writing a letter of thanks to whatever higher power you have or perhaps to the universe. Put many details in this letter that tell how you feel and what you have achieved. Share your story with your friends so that they might be encouraged.
If you have a comment or question drop me a line at Dr.Cutts@nicolecutts.com
Much Continued Success & Well Being,
Nicole
Nicole Cutts, Ph.D., CEO
Vision Quest Retreats & Cutts Consulting, LLC
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Step 5 of 7 Practical Steps to Achieving Your Vision of Success
At the “Taking Your Dreams from Design to Destiny” Conference on Jan. 15, 2011 participants were given an opportunity to go through the 7 steps below to create a draft of their Success Plan to take it to the next level in 2011! We started on 1.12.11 with step 1 (see below post dated 1.12.11). Over the next several weeks I am going to continue to share the SEVEN Practical Steps to achieving your goals and ultimately your Vision of Success. This week we are on Step 5. Updates will occur on Wednesdays in celebration of Women Owned Business Wednesdays.
SEVEN Practical Steps to Achieving Your Goals
Step 1-Find and Clarify your Vision of Success
Step 2-Define Your Goals Clearly
Step 3-See/Visualize Yourself Achieving Your Goals/Vision of Success
Step 4-Make a Clear Plan With a Timeline
Step 5-Chart your Progress
Step 6-Enjoy Your Success!
Step 7-Give Back.
This Week’s Step: #-5- Chart your Progress
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow said “Heights by great men (and woman) reached and kept were not obtained by sudden flight but, while their companions slept, they were toiling upward in the night.”
It is important to establish a time to check your progress. Pick a day once a week or once a month and read your plan and see if you are on schedule. If you need to change something do so, and be realistic. If something has changed and you no longer have as much time as you did when you wrote your plan then you need to change your plan. Also be honest with yourself. Visions and goals can change. If you find that you no longer really want this thing do not be afraid to change your plan. When you achieve one goal on your plan give yourself a treat. If this week you were supposed to complete 2 loan applications and you did then reward yourself with something you enjoy like going to the park or the movies.
If you did not achieve a weekly goal, for example, do not beat yourself up. Think about what might have stopped you and how you might prevent this from happening next week. Could you accomplish this goal later? If so then just move the goal to the next week and try again. Don’t be discouraged. If your plan is making you feel frustrated or too pressured then give yourself a bit more time.
Try these Success Coaching Exercises…
Get a Goal Buddy
Many experts suggest setting goals with a buddy, someone to share your plans with and who will help you check your progress. For example you could tell your buddy that you will read one book by Friday and she may need to do one job application by that same day. Then call each other and ask if you have done the task. Talk about why or why not and encourage each other to keep going and reward your success with compliments and encouragement.
Book Ending
Just pick a friend, doesn’t have to be an established “goal buddy” just call them up and tell them you are committing to taking a certain step or action toward your vision or goal. Tell them when you are going to do it and then call them back after you have accomplished the goal. It’s a shorter term exercise and you don’t need to have a goal buddy who is always the same…just pick any friend who you know supports your visions.
If you have a comment or question drop me a line at Dr.Cutts@nicolecutts.com
Much Continued Success & Well Being,
Nicole
Nicole Cutts, Ph.D., CEO
Vision Quest Retreats & Cutts Consulting, LLC
Are you a Woman Business Owner? Check out Women Owned Business Wednesdays!
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Step 4 of 7 Practical Steps to Achieving Your Vision of Success
At the “Taking Your Dreams from Design to Destiny” Conference on 1.15.11 participants were given an opportunity to go through the 7 steps below to create a draft of their Success Plan to take it to the next level in 2011! We started on 1.12.11 with step 1 (see below post dated 1.12.11). Over the next several weeks I am going to continue to share the SEVEN Practical Steps to achieving your goals and ultimately your Vision of Success. This week we are on Step 4. Updates will occur on Wednesdays in celebration of Women Owned Business Wednesdays.
SEVEN Practical Steps to Achieving Your Goals
Step 1-Find and Clarify your Vision of Success
Step 2-Define Your Goals Clearly
Step 3-See/Visualize Yourself Achieving Your Goals/Vision of Success
Step 4-Make a Clear Plan With a Timeline
Step 5-Chart your Progress
Step 6-Enjoy Your Success!
Step 7-Give Back.
This Week’s Step: #-4-Make a Clear Plan With a Timeline
Napoleon Hill said “A goal is a dream with a deadline”
Once you have defined your goal and written it down and visualized your success you must outline a concrete plan with steps to achieving this goal and your overall vision of success. Use the ideal scenario that you wrote and then pulled goals from. These goals are what you will place in your plan. Consider breaking your plan down into 5 year goals, 1 year goals, 6 months, 3 months and 1 month achievements. After completing this plan you can do weekly goals that will put you on schedule for all of the other timeline goals. Be realistic here so you don’t get discouraged.
Check to see that your goals are in line with and build upon each other. For example if in 5 years you plan to be out of college then at one year you need to have been accepted to a school and at 6 months you need to have applied to a school. It is unrealistic to say that you will finish a four year college in 2 years, but it is also unrealistic to say you will finish a 4-yr college in 10 years if you never apply!
Try this Success Coaching Exercise…
Pull 3 goals from the work you did in steps 1 & 2. Just circle them then write them down. Decide for each goal when you would like to accomplish it. Then one at a time break that goal down into smaller steps and put due dates on those smaller steps keeping in mind realistic impediments but still pushing yourself a bit. Once you have done that for these 3 goals repeat for all others. This is a draft so be flexible and move things around. Don’t get discouraged and don’t try to accomplish it all at once.
If you have a comment or question drop me a line at Dr.Cutts@nicolecutts.com
Much Continued Success & Well Being,
Nicole
Nicole Cutts, Ph.D., CEO
Vision Quest Retreats & Cutts Consulting, LLC
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Online Book Talk with Thembisa S. Mshaka author of “Put Your Dreams First” 2/9/11
Online Book Talk with Thembisa S. Mshaka author of “Put Your Dreams First: Handle Your [entertainment] Business” 2.9.11 from 12:30-4:30 PM EST on the Women Owned Business Wednesdays Face Book Page.
You are invited to a ONLINE (virtual) 24 hr Happy Hour on “Women Owned Business Wednesdays” Face Book page
**The first 10 fans of WOBWs to comment on the discussion posted on the wall (topic TBD) will receive a complimentary copy of Thembisa’s e-book “Put Your Dreams First: Handle Your [entertainment] Business”.**
“Thembisa offers one of the most thorough guides into the music business. Uniquely written from a woman’s standpoint, even men can benefit from her stories.” -AOL .
For more info on the event and the book please visit http://www.facebook.com/pages/Women-Owned-Business-Wednesdays/121247821271138?v=box_3#!/note.php?note_id=185300944835113
Much Continued Success & Well Being,
Nicole
Nicole Cutts, Ph.D., CEO Vision Quest Retreats & Founder of Women Owned Business Wednesdays
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SEVEN Practical Steps to Achieving Your Vision of Success. Step 3-See Yourself Achieving Your Goals
At the “Taking Your Dreams from Design to Destiny” Conference on 1.15.11 participants were given an opportunity to go through the 7 steps below to create a draft of their Success Plan to take it to the next level in 2011! We started on 1.12.11 with step 1 (see below post dated 1.12.11). Over the next several weeks I am going to continue to share the SEVEN Practical Steps to achieving your goals and ultimately your Vision of Success. This week we are on Step 3. Updates will occur on Wednesdays in celebration of Women Owned Business Wednesdays.
SEVEN Practical Steps to Achieving Your Goals
Step 1-Find and Clarify your Vision of Success
Step 2-Define Your Goals Clearly
Step 3-See/Visualize Yourself Achieving Your Goals/Vision of Success
Step 4-Make a Clear Plan With a Timeline
Step 5-Chart your Progress
Step 6-Enjoy Your Success!
Step 7-Give Back.
This Week’s Step: #3- See/Visualize Yourself Achieving Your Goals/Vision of Success
Before setting off on the path to your own success you must first be able to see yourself achieving your success. You must believe that you can do it.
As motivational speaker Dr. Cherie Carter-Scott states “Ordinary people believe only in the possible. Extraordinary people visualize not what is possible or probable, but rather what is impossible. And by visualizing the impossible, they begin to see it as possible.”
One way to do this is through Creative Visualization. “Creative Visualization is the technique of using your imagination to create what you want in your life.” Shakti Gawain
During Creative visualization your imagination or ability to create a mental image, idea or picture in your mind is used to create an image of something or situation that you want to manifest or create. Many experts suggest keeping pictures of the goals that you want to achieve. It is more powerful if you have a picture of yourself in this situation.
Try these Success Coaching Exercises…
1) Writing affirmations or statements of what you wish to do is a useful tool for this step. For example you would write “I am a successful college professor, I love my job and my students love learning from me.” Really put as many details as you can, really imagine what you will feel like when you are living your vision of success and write this all down. Put these affirmations were you can see them.
2) Make a Vision Board or Treasure Map
3) Try the Pink Bubble Technique
If you have a comment or question drop me a line at Dr.Cutts@nicolecutts.com
Much Continued Success & Well Being,
Nicole
Nicole Cutts, Ph.D., CEO
Vision Quest Retreats & Cutts Consulting, LLC
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SEVEN Practical Steps to Achieving Your Vision of Success. Step 2-Define Your Goals
At the “Taking Your Dreams from Design to Destiny” Conference on 1.15.11 participants were given an opportunity to go through the 7 steps below and to create a draft of their Success Plans to take it to the next level in 2011! We started last week with step 1(see above post date 1.12.11). Over the next six weeks I am going to continue to share the SEVEN practical steps to achieving your goals and ultimately your Vision of Success. This week we are on Step 2.
Step 1-Find and Clarify your Vision of Success
Step 2-Define Your Goals Clearly
Step 3-See/Visualize Yourself Achieving Your Goals/Vision of Success
Step 4-Make a Clear Plan With a Timeline
Step 5-Chart your Progress
Step 6-Enjoy Your Success!
Step 7-Give Back.
This Week’s Step: #2-Define your Goal Clearly
Not all wishes are goals. Goals must be:
A) Realistic, something you can achieve.
B) You must deeply desire your goal. Napoleon Hill, the author of “Think and Grow Rich” said. “The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desires bring weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat.”
C) A goal must be clearly defined. Shakti Gawain in her book “Creative Visualization,” states, “As soon as I have a very clear, strong intention to create a particular thing, it manifests almost immediately…
Writing your goals down is very important and gives them more power than just thinking or imagining your success.
Try this Success Coaching Exercise…
Using your ideal scenario from step 1 pull out concrete goals that must be achieved to complete your ideal vision of success. For example if your ideal scenario said something like ” I have a successful thriving business that sells antiques.” then one goal might be “secure loan” or “rent store” or “get certification as an antiques dealer” You get the picture. Don’t worry about the timeline for accomplishing these milestones yet…that comes later. For now just write down your goals and read them to yourself.
If you have a comment or question drop me a line at Dr.Cutts@nicolecutts.com
Much Continued Success & Well Being,
Nicole
Nicole Cutts, Ph.D., CEO Vision Quest Retreats & Cutts Consulting, LLC
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Seven Steps to Achieving Your Vision of Success. Step 1-Find and Clarify your Vision of Success
If you could become anything you wanted, or accomplish anything you wanted in life, what would it be? What can YOU do to make this happen? Are you doing these things? (If not, why not?)
Many people will tell you, you can be anything you want or if you can see it that you can be it, but what they might not tell you is HOW. What can you do to reach your goals in life? Sometimes you might be frustrated because you don’t know what you want to be or sometimes you do and you can’t see how you can ever get there. Sometimes you feel overwhelmed because you know what needs to be done but you need help or you don’t know how to do it.
Today I am going to share SEVEN practical stepsto achieving your goals and ultimately your Vision of Success. These are techniques used by women and men who have been successful in their chosen careers and life paths.
Step 1-Find and Clarify your Vision of Success
Step 2-Define Your Goals Clearly
Step 3-See/Visualize Yourself Achieving Your Goals/Vision of Success
Step 4-Make a Clear Plan With a Timeline
Step 5-Chart your Progress
Step 6-Enjoy Your Success!
Step 7-Give Back.
Step 1-Find and Clarify your Vision of Success: Some successful people have always known what they have wanted to be, but many of us do not. Some people do not discover their true passion until later in life and some never do. If you do not yet know what you want to be that’s okay but there are ways to find out. Some examples are…Ask yourself what you are good at. Ask yourself what you enjoy doing. If you do not know the answer to these questions then pay attention to what you feel and think when you hear people talk about their visions or when you see people on TV or read about them in books. What draws your interest? Write all of this down in a journal. Talk to your friends about their goals and dreams. Ask questions of people who do the things that you think you might like to do. Follow your instincts and when they tell you something DO IT, even if this means earning less money, volunteering, taking an internship etc. If you are searching for your passion let money come later…believe in abundance!
Once you start following your instincts your vision will become more clear. Write down your Vision or Ideal Scenario for your life. Don’t worry if it’s not totally clear or if it doesn’t seem to make sense. Just write down as much as is clear.
Use these suggested headings to guide you or choose your own.
- Work/Career
- Lifestyle/Possessions
- Relationships
- Personal/Spiritual Growth
- Physical Health
Once you have articulated your Vision of Success you are ready to move on to Step 2-Define Your Goals Clearly (Please come back next week prepared to move on to step 2) If you just can’t wait there is still time to register for this Saturday’s “Taking Your Dreams from Design to Destiny” Women’s Conference where participants will get a chance to go through the above steps and create a Success Plan to take into 2011!
Much Continued Success & Well Being,
Nicole
Nicole Cutts, Ph.D., CEO Vision Quest Retreats & Cutts Consulting, LLC
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Who Lives Inside of You?
On January 15, 2011 at the “Taking Your Dreams from Design to Destiny” Women’s Conference Ananda Leeke will be presenting a special talk entitled “Who’s Living Inside of Me?” Ananda’s presentation offers participants an opportunity to meet the personalities or archetypes living inside of them and to discover how these archetypes shape our dreams and ultimately our destiny.
I have always known that there are many distinct aspects to my personality. Perhaps being a Gemini led to the acceptance of this at an early age. Whenever someone asked me which “twin” they were seeing, my response was always “there aren’t just two of me.”
I have long been fascinated with the female archetypes that live in our collective unconscious. This fascination led to the research and creation that went into my “Reclaiming the G*ddess” series of paintings. Although that search was fuelled specifically by a need to find and excavate images of the feminine divine, divinity is just one aspect of the feminine archetype. In fact there is no finite number of feminine archetypes.
Many of us embody several female and male archetypes. Ananda has defined five distinct personalities with different names. I have defined four and these aspects hold derivations of my name.
Who lives inside of you?
I first gave conscious thought to naming the different aspects of myself when I was about 35. My boyfriend at the time used to refer to them without provocation from me. When he began asking “who is this talking now?” I decided to clarify…
Nicky-playful wild little girl, mishevious vixen, funny, eternal romantic and major flirt
Nicole-the unifying even aspect of my person, rational, thoughtful observer. Most often in control of the show.
Rhona-no-nonsense business woman, very intellectual, driven, focused, a bit zipped up, conservative, sometimes prudish
Nick-tough no-nonsense fighter, protector of the rest, bold, brash, irreverent, powerfully sexy, fearless warrior woman.
Internal Struggle:
Later on two separate occasions while working with two different body work coaches to get past some blocks I discovered that there were also two distinct aspects of myself that were at the root of this stuckness. What I learned is that they, like all aspects of myself are well intentioned and want what they see as best for me, but these two were in opposition and this was hampering my progress around my work. I was frustrated because my Vision was clear but the way I was working did not reflect this clarity nor the passion I felt for it.
Professor Cutts/Soft Mama-is content to stay inside working slowly and thoroughly toward our goals, but she did not want to go outside and deal with the harsh realities of doing business is the big bad world. She wanted someone else to go out there and do it and leave her be with her books, nesting activities and lots of naps.
Kali/Superhero in Black-wants it all now, she is demanding, impatient and ego driven, her motto is “get out of my way or die!” She would destroy whatever gets in her way and enjoy standing atop the heap of the carcasses of her enemies. She can get it done but is often too impatient to focus.
With both Marilyn and Ken I discovered how to work with these disparate forces, discovering that my job is not to suppress either of them but hear them, understand their needs and intentions and call on the right one in the right occasions, not letting either one run the show entirely because they are too extreme in their own ways. Professor Cutts needs to be at work when writing, researching, preparing and nurturing herself. Kali can be called on when we need a fighter and to make those public appearances that call for performance. She’s great on stage. She is also the one to invoke when feeling fearful or defeated because she defeats all and fears none.
So now it’s your turn…
Who lives inside of you? When did you discover them? What are their names and what are they like? How well do they play together? What have you learned from them?
Drop me a line and share your discoveries.
To learn more register for “Taking Your Dreams from Design to Destiny” Women’s Conference!
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Today is the First Women Owned Business Wednesday!
Women Owned Business Wednesday was established in conjunction with the “Taking Your Dreams from Design to Destiny” Women’s Conference to be held Jan. 15, 2011
In support of the mission of this conference; helping women clarify and achieve their visions of success in a context of prosperity, WOB Wednesdays (WOBWs) supports and celebrates women owned businesses.
What are we doing?
1) Vision Quest Retreats is offering discounted registration of $50 (regularly $60) to all women business owners on every Wednesday starting December 1 until the conference Saturday January 15, 2011.
2) We are also promoting the women business owners who take advantage of this special registration by putting them “on blast” wherever we promote the “Taking Your Dreams from Design to Destiny” Women’s Conference 2011 i.e. conference website, newsletters, blogs, social media sites, radio and TV interviews.
How can you get involved?
1) Spread the word by inviting women business owners to “LIKE” the WOBWs Facebook Page.
2) Post information about your favorite women business owners (yourself included) who are doing big things with their businesses on the WOBWs Facebook page, on this blog or Vision Quest Retreats Facebook page. Don’t be shy. Start promoting your business today. Tell us about the big things you are doing!
Do you have some favorite women owned businesses? Let them know by posting their info on WOBWs Page.
Much Continued Success & Well Being,
Nicole, Founder WOBWs
CEO, Vision Quest Retreats & Cutts Consulting, LLC
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Who’s on Your Team?
Who is on Your Team?
I was meeting with Ananda Leeke and Marie Isabell Laurion; two of the women in what I call my Vision Circle the other day and we were discussing ways to support other women business owners and entrepreneurs. Ananda mentioned some of the women who are on her “team” and we got to talking about paying attention to who supports us and who we support. This got me to thinking about who is on my team. Whose businesses do I choose to support and who supports me in mine? I think it’s important to examine who we have on our team. What values do they hold, what aspect of us and our vision do they support? Do I have the right people on my team with the right energy, the energy that is aligned with my values and my vision? Who we pick for our team is important because they support us on the road of living our vision.
So let’s look at my Team roster…
I’m a pretty visual person so I made a sketch of who’s on my team. I drew a circle with me in the middle and drew lines and other bubbles around me with the different aspects of my life written in the middle, then I put the names and positions of the team members around these circles. By the way, they are not all women…that’s not what matters. What matters is who we choose to have on our team and why. One thing I discovered from this little exercise was that I have a pretty extensive team! My other discovery was how good I feel about the people and entities on my team. I have a lot of support!
Try This: Make a pictorial representation of who is on your team. After you do this take a look and assess the extent to which your team members support your Vision of Success. You may find you need more players or that you have the wrong folks on the team and they need to be cut and replaced. Maybe you will find you have a bigger source of support than you thought.
So who’s on your team? Drop me a line and share your discoveries!
Much Continued Support, Success and Well Being!
Nicole
Important P.S. the sketch above represents only a partial listing of my team!
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